Yeah Y'all!
I know lately we haven't been to enamored with politicians. When have we ever been for that matter? Go figure? Health care reform, Jobs, and the incorrigible maleficence in which the business of government is conducted. Yeah it's a shitshow!Don't get me started!!! Lol! But there is something more insidious and equally disconcerting.... The male-female sexual dynamic and how differently it's perceived by the two parties. For example:" Men just wanna bone." "Women are only after relationships." "Why doesn't she wanna have sex with me? She'll only like it anyway." "What's wrong with sex?" "If I have more than one partner am I considered a whore?" "She don't want it as much as I do." The list goes on....
There is a reason that things are constructed the way they are. There's a biological answer and there's a Moral answer. There is also a ethical answer. The biological: Men have innumerable sperm, while woman have only one egg they drop per month. The moral: Your body is a temple and God will be displeased with you if you fornicate freely. The ethical: You gotta wait for marriage sex isn't the be all end all. It's a action for the greater good in a larger scheme of building a family unit. For each one of these categories the answers interchangeable. But the fact still remains... Whatever side you're on in the dating game. "It can frustrate the hell outta ya!" Not to be wax-philosophical, but in our universe there is positive and negative. Opposing forces on opposite sides with different agendas. Nothing is ever completely facile. Animals have to work for their food. Humans have to work for theirs as well. Anything worth having is worth working for...Blah, blah, blah. Now we see why porn, smuts, prostitutes are so popular.
But no really. There is a new openness when comes to sex that is almost seemingly banal. On television, movies, music, videos, personal conversations. Sex is the perquisite of any potential romantic relationship. We fuckin anticipate it! (No pun intended.) The 50's puritanical attitudes are gone! So is the pretense of civility in such matters. Now intentions are blatantly out in the open. "I'm just tryna fuck." "It's a sex thing." "This is the sixth date and still no sex!" (fifth date rule out the window. Oh no!!!) Yeah the stories about sex create a colorful Mosaic of triumphs, failures, and heart-ache. But we must remember.. Sex is only as important as you make it. You want sex. Find someone that wants to give it to you. ( Easier said than done. I know.) In most cases sex is the beginning. Whether it be a relationship, or a fuckbuddyship. It just the means to an end. Yeah it may be up there with eating and breathing and drinking as important survival mechanism. But we gotta take the politics out of it. Like The movie Ving Rhames was in and he played a drag queen? I forgot? Oh.. " Relax it's just sex... Not politics. Until next time make it happen like rappin....
Wiki-p South Broad family.
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